You may be trauma bonded to your addicted loved one. This could be the reason why you can't just let go of the addict/alcoholic in your life!
Your head says you need to leave the relationship with your addicted loved one, but your heart just won't let you go.
Anything that gives us a positive reward gets us addicted, but if it's not a consistent reward, it becomes even more addictive.
You know those glimpses of the person your addicted loved one used to be that come from time to time? That's reinforcing the reward system and it feels like in your head, it's such a relief and it's such a hard thing to forget. So you keep going back trying to make it work.
This is an absolute parallel process to what your loved one is going through with their addiction. The withdrawal process from a relationship is similar to an addiction withdrawal. It's not painless, but I promise it does get better!
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