I know it feels like your wife is overreacting about literally everything while you're going through this trial. Try to remember that mothers are built with an internal instinct. She's not being paranoid, okay, maybe a little bit. BUT If they sense something is off with your child, chances are she's probably right. She's trusting that gut instinct.
It's hard to know what to do if your child is using drugs, but the first step is getting on the same page with your spouse. In most cases, moms become very reactive about their kid's drug use and dads tend to minimize the situation, causing much conflict between the parents and enables the kid to continue to use drugs or drink excessively.
In this video, we will go through exactly what to do and how to find a solution for you and your spouse so that you two can tackle your child's addiction head on TOGETHER without conflict.
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